Thriving After 25 Years of Marriage
What are some of the issues with marriage and the ways to survive and thrive for so many years?
My wife, Soni, and I just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary. Like most couples, we had plenty of ups and downs. At times, betting the…
How to Avoid Marital Money Problems
"Marry a man/woman more frugal then you," is great advice from one of my favorite books, The Millionaire Next Door
Some guys will tell you, it's a lot easier said then done.
For those guys that have married a frugal woman, money is usually…
How Chasing Possessions is Dangerous to Your Wealth
The Big Lie is that creating a higher standard of living (over spending) leads to a higher quality of life. Having more money or nicer things allows you to pay for nicer things and borrow more money, but doesn't mean you will have a better…
Stories About Dad
Father's Day is coming soon and I always have mixed feelings about it. When do men with kids stop thinking of Father's Day as a day to think about their own dad rather than being a dad? I'm sure everybody's different, but I still haven't gotten…
My Mother, My Idol
I think many of us would agree that our mother is/was probably under appreciated, especially when we were young. The older I get, the more I love and value my mother. I'm fortunate that she is still with me and going strong. I'm especially…
What Matters Most
“I don’t really care” is my first response to many questions these days. Like the book, “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff”, right now, due to a medical issue in my family, almost everything seems like “small or unimportant stuff”.
Why…
Loving More Effectively
5 Love Languages is a "difference maker" book. Ever wonder why your spouse or child doesn’t appreciate it when you go out of your way to show your love to them? I just finished reading a terrific book that should be required reading…